Friday, February 3, 2012

Taking a Stance

Growing up, I have always lived around a safe, predominantly white, sheltered community. When I landed my first job at retail, my managers would always tell all of the employees to keep an eye out for those customers that come in and seem suspicious even if they were not doing anything out of the ordinary. The customers that my managers normally single out are Mexicans and African-Americans. As a newly hired employee, I listened to everything that my managers told me, even if I felt a little uncomfortable about the racist comments they would talk about each of the purchasers. Eventually, I tried to make it clear that it was not making me feel comfortable. Eventually one day, I pulled one of my managers aside and told her that some customers are here to shop and all the times that we were asked to spy on the customers who were not of white descent, nothing terrible happens. I also told her that just because a person is white, it does not mean that he or she would not steal anything from the store. In all honesty, it took me a while to build up that confidence to talk to my manager in fear of losing my job. However I am glad I took a stance and she listened to what I had to say. Though they still do it at times, and I understand that they are just doing their job, they toned down the unnecessary comments. I have learned that sometimes it just takes a little leap of confidence to stand behind what you believe is right. This is key to success and happiness.

2 comments:

  1. The beginning of your story truly sucked me in because the consequences were so big. I definitely agree with you that rationality doesn't come to mind at all when it comes to drinking and partying. Believe me, I have done some astonishing things too that I, to this day, still can't believe I did. Some acts are just not in my memory bank but then come back a little bit when someone explains to me what did happen. I also get those feelings when you feel that those accusations are indeed true. The position was definitely hard and I'm glad in the end you are still with your love. My boyfriend of 4 years as well would probably have acted the same as yours. The decision you've made probably would've taken as much effort as well considering I wouldn't want to choose between people who I always hang out with.

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  2. I am glad you finally grew the confidence to stand up to your co workers. I understand that it must be hard for you to stand up and confront them about it, however I believe it was rather necessary for you to do so. It is a shame that we are still living in a society where discrimination and racism exist. To watch out for shoplifters during hours of operation is completely normal and understandable, but to single out racial groups are wrong. This is why I dislike shopping at certain places. Unlike you, I grew up in a very diverse community. There are times where I would go into a nice area to shop and judging by the way I dress or talk, I would often get EXTRA attention while shopping or judgmental comments about not being able to afford certain merchandises. It really bothers me to know that discrimination still exists today. I believe that you did the right thing and I am really glad that you stood up to them.

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